HI ALL,
Well, I will start by saying. I met my exwife over the phone and all was great in the beginning and I lived in Texas and she in NY. Things progressed and I had to give my house up and some investments to move and be with her in NYC. So I do this and we are in NY for 2 yrs .This girl was up my ass and in my business and even interfering with my whole life. We had aloped already and now she had to have some big exp wedding to put on a show.$25,000 show indeed. I gonna cut this story short cause its a long line of abuse , verbal, physical , emotional.I had not the red carpet ride out for me like her.She is super beautiful, and was starting modeling.Ford models.Over a period of 2 yrs, she started talking to guys and making me feel underminded and even told her countless times to respect me and her actions only got worse. I decided to leave her after a week of being sick no sign of her calling me to ask if i NEED MEDICINE OR ANYTHING.If she was sick I spoiled her. I gave her what no other man could .I didnt even look at other women, I was married. SO I left her after she got drunk with friends and and told me shell come home when she wants to.I got all my stuff and a rent a car and took off to go back to texas after thousands of lost dollars.And I did all the moving across country myself , to and from NY to Texas, I was exhausted. SO she manipulated my mom and everyone she could to convince me she will no longer do those things for me to stay .We were atya point where we had to either go settle somewhere or go to Europe for her carrer. I reluctanly gave her a second chance and now I had to drive back to NY and then move all our stuff to Paris,France.Where now it is 4x more exp than it was the last time I was there.Euro is to blame. After I see its futile to stay for long because it was ungodly expensive to live there.I had alot of saved money to start with approx $110,000.I worked for 10 yrs and instead of spending it I saved it for my marriage.I demanded we start planning for a house and for me to have a normal job to support my end of things.She refused as it was all about her and what she wanted.She was making more money and started separating our money and blew all her money on shoes ,bags , stupid stuff constanly against my advice and guidance.We had a fight because she would not even attemp to make a plan with me. She decided to slap my face , and having been in a previous relation like that I put her face down on bed so she couldnt hit me again. she freaked out and went pshyco. She started hitting me as hard as she could in the face. I am a man and dont hit girls.My hands were down to show her to stop and for her to realise what she was doing and that I was not threatening her.And then decided to close her fist and hit me so hard as angry as she was and shattered my nose up into my eyebrows and destroyed my face. At this time she had more money than me and ways to make it. I was a famous international m,odel and at that time I was up for perfume campaign and other jobs .She ruin my 10 yrs carrer in 2 seconds.And made me have to pay for my surgery.being France and not able to communicate well with most doctors made me have to wait for 1.5 months till I could set a date for plastic surgery,I cant tell all enough how detyrimental this was to me. Noone has any idea the emotional problems related to this type of event.I couldnt look in mirror for 5 months, I could not recognise myself anymore let alon be a model as he said it may take more than one to fix it. She abandoned me in France to go to Russia where shes from and decided to screw around while I was at home suffering.And then went to all her shows NY MILAN, then Paris. So 2 months of phone crap and abuse over the phone and not knowing what to do .felt like I was in living hell for 3 yrs and all due to her using the sanctity of marriage to use against me and my beleifs. Out of convenience she worked things out and chilled out only to go out months later and get so drunk that going to get her and finding out she was trying to kiss multiple guys in some damn bar.When Im at home. So 8 hrs later having strangers help bring her home and having to carry her unconscious upflights of stairs, I was just lost.I am solid individual with so much love ,understanding and personal sacrifice to better the one I love is what I live for or at least used to. SO ity only became a super drain on my personal finances and could earn because of the assault.I was trapped.I got down to my last amount of money and said to her we have to go back, I have to get normal work now and forget all the yrs I put into this.She could continue hers but I need to work on security for us (home).So we started looking for a house and found one in Texas and I had to stay in PAris and get every thing moved back and move out ,turn apt back to agency(work ,work, work) .SO Finally I have to get a ticket home for the closing date. She was in NY and I was in Paris. She decided to go behind my back use my credit to get house but tried to put it in her name exclusively without my knowledge. It blew up as the mortgage broker was my friend and told me the breakdown, I was appauled.And she then withdrew all the stufdf that was going to get our hiome and started having an affair and took all our money from bank and abandoned me in Europe to find a way back with nothing. I was going literally crazy now being in this situation. I had no where to go , no money , A broken face still healing ,abandonment.No job lined up. I was even starting to think suicidal thought I could never allow myself to carry out , but doesnt mean that I wasnt thinking of it. I had to close all or any accounts and take what ever was there and arrived to Texas to stay with my mom and step dad, and I had $280 in my pocket. From that point nothing but shocking hurtful news of screwing another guy and hurting me ,even I was studying for an insurance license to better the situation. She would wait til I was about to take my test that she was having an affair and belittling me to hinder my situation and fail my test ,which I did dude to the stress I was under. I finaly passed it and started working but was not a good place to work being new and no client base made it a very slow to another loss of time and money for me and even more criticism from her. We could of had it all but she a lying deceitful , bitch that is totally narsisitic and cruel. And went out of her way to destroy the one person on earth that would of given his life for her. I trully have another idea of love and has altered my whole life. You see she did all these things to me so I could not fight her in court and make her look rediculous as she should have and pay me what I deserve and needed based on our situation of events. And in the end she got away with it all. I didnt have a penny and lawyers are crooks without your interests at hand. If that not enough then I have her calling my familly to painty a horrible picture of me to lower me in my families eyes. They knew the scoop and in one ear on out the other. The fact is she tried. She is trully evil and only loves herself and noone else. I lived long enough as well as have my family and friends and all say they have never seen any woman capable of being this cruel and evil knowing how much I sacrificed for her and all my money gone and left to die in the end. I was usccessful , attractive and happy and to this day I cant breath right or blow my nose normal , I have exema on the places the skin is thin and sensitvre even after now four yrs!!! My nose is not the same and I look different in pictures. I have had nothing but struggling times sinse then .I cant forgive her as much as I have tried. I hate her trully andshe will burn in hell for what she has done. No human should get away with these kind of crimes. She only will do it againh and agin as she has done before me and after me.DASHA VLASENKO (next models) Evil cruel ,criminal,. that got away with the worse things people do . I write this to warn others of this trully evil and stupid ass girl . She is in the game to get ur money and hurt you if it interests her, as she gets bored so easily that she will always take it out on you ,blame you for all things that are wrong with her, Hopefully this reaches someone that can use it to protect themselves. As this entirely unacceptable and now my life that I have worked so hard to make a good moral life , has been ruined by DASHA VLASENKO. And DASHA if you ever find this , I hope you burn in hell with hitler .You are and the same.
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Wow! I am truely amazed. I wish I could meet you if your still here in Texas. I hope you can forgive me, for I am the one who brought her to Texas from Georgia and introduced her to the industry. I met her when she was 16 and knew her for 6 years. She broke my heart so many times. I can completely see her being this way! I had hoped that after the last time I spoke with her she would grow up with age, but I can see I am completly wrong! I manipulated her in our last converstion to push her away from me. She tried to come back but was unsuccessful thanks to some of my coworkers. I truely believe God protected me from her. I will still continue to pray for her, and now you. To forgive someone does not necissarily mean you have to have them back in your life. It's amazing though to see how someone can be so beautiful on the outside but so ugly on the inside. Let me know if you ever want to talk because I understand.
i definitely remember you chris (dashas ex-husband), and remember meeting you back stage at the Calvin Klein show. i found dasha to be quite a lovely person and always wondered why a girl of her caliber would marry someone of yours, but to see all this on the web only confirms the alarms i had back then. there were a few people in fashion industry who vastly questioned your sexual orientation and why you would marry a 21 y.0. hmm i completely see why. you dont have to be a genius to know that a 21 yo who looks like her will make a killing in fashion and you saw many opportunities for yourself.
Her career was just starting out and she actually ended up doing really well but yours was nothing to speak of past age 28. you ask how i know this? i was an agent to one of her friends and these things travel fast. back then i would say your credibility was questionable at best but I see it has perished. I never saw you as a man of high integrity or acute intelligence hence the fact you are uneducated 36y.o.(37?), have no job (reading from your blog) and have so much time on your hands to sit and write defaming blogs, all comments to which are clearly coming from the same person. Well you are in tyler texas, where ever that is. These things about dasha are laughable and absurd , and I am surprised she hasn’t taken any legal action, but surely once she sees this I have no doubt you will be reprimanded for your bitter words.
Ooph! I don’t know the situation but from every comment posted, this girl is of some sort of unearthly beauty and whoever writes this blog got his heart broken and can’t move on. Everyone goes through it. My advice: to get over the pain you experienced, don’t let bad memories live. Although it doesn’t seem like you want to move on because this is a great example of how you keep your pain alive. Best to you
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